The invite list keeps growing.
Five people last week. Ten this week. Names showing up that nobody told you about, added quietly on a Thursday.
And you feel it. The deal is heating up. People want in. This is the one.
Right?
It’s worth slowing down on that feeling, because it’s usually wrong.
A growing room doesn’t mean the deal is accelerating. It means the deal is spreading. And spreading and accelerating are not the same thing.
Here’s what happens when the room fills up. The head of customer experience wants one thing. The IT person wants another. The technical builder is in there to protect the thing he’s building internally that’s going nowhere. Every new name is a new use case, and every new use case pulls your demo in a different direction.
So you do the thing that feels safe. You try to cover all of it. You go broad. And broad is exactly where deals go to die, because you don’t go deep on anything, and nobody in the room sees the one thing that was supposed to make them lean in.
Thirty minutes. Ten people. Six use cases. You leave having shown a little of everything and convinced no one of anything.
But there’s a layer underneath this that most sellers miss.
A room that keeps growing is often a signal that your champion doesn’t understand what you do well enough to know who should be there. She sees you as a broad solution that does a lot of things. So she invites a lot of people. That’s not enthusiasm. That’s a positioning gap, showing up on a calendar invite.
If she understood that there’s a specific use case for these people, and a different specific use case for those people, and that the two need to stay separate because they’re genuinely different, she’d run this differently. She’d protect the room. The fact that she isn’t tells you she can’t yet. And that’s on you to fix, not her.
So the move isn’t to perform harder for a bigger crowd. The move is to take the crowd apart.
Split the room. One call for the specialists, one for the executive. Run the specialists first. Take their questions, their granular concerns, their not-cool questions about security and integration. Then walk into the executive call and say: here’s what your team got excited about. Now the executive hears a focused story, pre-validated by their own people, instead of watching a demo get derailed by someone three levels down asking about edge cases.
You don’t water it down. You concentrate it.
The big crowd feels like proof the deal is real.
The discipline to break it apart is what makes it real.
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